I feel that forming a conscious relationship, is more than just loving oneself, and loving others for who they are. This understanding is about finding the peace within who you are as a whole and knowing what you want from it, actually defining a vision from it and then acting upon it.
Even those who love themselves can get hurt, can fall into relationships that do not resonate with the vibe they want to create or the path they are walking, this is a part of our growth, so we can expand even further, for both us and the other we will serve as a reflection for in life, as a partner. We often want to put others into the boxes we live in rather than finding a home where you each want to reside within, yet through this desire, so many can forget to design a home they truly want to live within, in the heart, for now, and hereafter.
Many people believe opposites attract, and while yes they may, there are other people in life, who want or need something different, an opposing idea, something where you see such strong similarities, to really fine tune your ideas. It's all in what matters most to your heart and your goals for this life. While some will reside within any type of relationship, I believe for a conscious relationship to truly form, we must look at why that type of relationship we truly want in life, how the ups and downs will affect you both and find tools to help navigate your life boats.
Many people will ignore the cries for help or the spirit saying, to move on and this creates a lot of the chaos, turmoil, stress and broken hearts in life. Because we were unwilling to let go and see what comes next, trusting that if you let go, if it is meant to be it will come back and it will last. This is why the importance of letting go is so imperative to everything in life because we do not own anything, and especially in love, it's important we see the importance of each person' individuality and need for growth within their own given reality.
To constantly let go, opens a door to see what strength of the bond, your hearts truly have. That if you choose to separate, or life takes you in different directions, will you be able to "find your way back" Acknowledging that if another arrives in your life, time and time again, even as you choose to move forward, let go and "see what comes next", you will build a stronger level of trust in the universe and the gifts it is willing to give. Remembering suddenly that the relationship you have with another, is, in fact, a deeper relationship with the universe and the universe only ever wants you to have the best of the best.
When you choose to look within to discover these facts, you will begin to live a life of seeing beyond, seeing so deep inside oneself, you cannot hide from the pain, you must face it all head on. It's easy for us to say "I love myself", but what does that actually mean to you? And are you willing to put in the time, energy along the journey to truly discover the love you seek, by diving deep?
So many people have different perspectives on it, so this love must truly come from you, understanding what level you wish to choose to see, feel and live within, this is the vibe you give. Not everyone will feel the same way, not everyone will see what you see, or do what you do, or be the way you be, and this is ok, because this is your reality, and theirs is theirs, until you each choose, to co-create a reality.
So your only true answers in life will ever come when you choose to look so deep within that you can't hide from the things your soul wants you to see. Because you live as the soul most fully embodied.
Each relationship in my past, friendship, and romance has taught me the significance of what it means to live as a soul being. I have seen the effects of what it means to have your body, affected because you are not listening to your spirit and your feelings when you go on ignoring what answers have been provided. That even if you choose to leave someone or choose to stay, this doesn't mean you love them or yourself any less. It's really more about, are you listening to what your soul has been providing along your path? Are you ready to grow as the spirit you are inside and realize this on the outside?
There are terms and phrases and different points of realization. to see these levels of vibration, but each will see it the ways of which it is provided to them. So every day it is important to ask, are we truly listening? When we are things will be "easier", essentially, they will feel lighter, more in flow, and simpler to process. This is the point at which you are allowing Source to enter and trust the Universe will create a path for you to walk as you take each step.
That no matter what happens, even with all the crap that comes up along the way, it will be smoother to deal with, because you gave yourself all you needed to move through it. You nourished yourself, your mind, your body, and your soul.
Therefore, everything happening from here on forward is because you chose to listen to your heart for what can fuel you to live longer, happier and stronger all together.
When doing so, you will be rewarded along your path, with opportunities to interact with others who choose to walk similar paths. Every time you listen to the child inside your inner-being, the self that feels only pure joy and happiness, this is when you will see the rewards roll in.